Advise on how the artist to get loose and move

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Dear Valeriy! Raised in your question is in itself a major dilemma. From that, how did you choose depends a great deal.
How are told to "unwind" must move, that is to ride, walk, learn, negotiate, display, and drink, and feed new friends. In all this needs money and, most importantly, time. This time you will have to tear off your creativity. Hence the question: how to pull? Roughly speaking, five days a week, or one? Naturally, the more time to give one, the less will remain on another. From the solution of this question will determine the future strategy.
Else. Do not think for insolence. I agree with Nata Nova, the background on your site is very intense. It just kills your work. If you make it softer, will be much better.