Advice to new members and old too!

[Grigory]

Read the text from one of the professional forums. Very useful advice for all of us.

Good day, dear new members of our forum.
You recently signed up and want to (or forced) to communicate with us. You may seem old-timers that forum too hard on you. So I will try to briefly explain to you why this is happening and how to avoid it.

1. Before you write something, look to the participants, their style of communication.
It is necessary so that would adjust the manner of their conduct at the forum. Not zabyvate about politeness: the strangers always refer to "you".
Example: on the forum all communicate following the rules of Russian language, but you are getting with their ollobanskim and "you". Naturally, you will be sent to hell

2. Read the Rules of the Forum.
It is better to meet them, otherwise you will be asked to meet them. Perhaps, roughly.

3. If you still "have driven", try to understand the reason for the accident. As a rule, the old-timers simply because at no cursing, ie You've done something wrong. Understand that this is "wrong".
Example: You asked a question, and you rudely sent to the archives or search, then you asked a question whose answer was given many times and old-timers simply tired of answering it. Output: use the search on forum and find the answer to your question.

4. Try to make a favorable impression.
Write competently (if you had a deuce on the Russian - typing in the program MS Word, fix the errors and copy the message in the forum. If problems with commas - do not write long sentences.)

5. Do not forget that reading the text and hear the conversation - different things. Reading the text, it is impossible to understand the intonation. Old-timers have been long acquainted with each other, so you always know when one of them joking and when he says seriously. You for what you have understood correctly, you can use smilies, but cautiously, do not overdo it.

Thank you Mary and offline printers!

[Vlasta]

American Forum. Ask a question, then you are responsible.
Israeli forum. Ask a question, then you ask a question.
Russia forum. Ask a question, then you tell us a long time, what are you idiot: D
LET'S go away from it! But some messages can not read at all: mad:

[Allena]

Against the backdrop of universal pre-New Year pacifying really do not want to speak again about the problems of this forum, it is necessary.

Dear colleagues, particularly esteemed colleague from the city of AP, please do not be by the first answer to the question on the questioner pour a bucket in the best cold water! You are just like that, in passing, something, I'm sorry, blurted out without thinking, and how do you want this your breakpoints to respond to someone who first came to our forum and expects to get help here? Their point of view, you always set out for both single and infallible truth. How should respond to the questioner, when, sorry, do not expose you to a very clever man and the owner or outright foolish pocherkushki lime. You are a knowledgeable person, your opinion is valuable, and all the more puzzling, why do so! Is not it easier to keep silent, if the case has nothing to say? Or at least explain their position.

I would, perhaps, would not reopen this topic, but a couple of months ago trying to get advice on a professional forum for the beginning received from local "merry", of which there are and we have enough ugly answers in full. That is all exactly as we do.

People, because none of us would not allow himself to behave well in the real world - on the street, in the office. Than a forum something worse??

[тандем]

Originally Posted by Allena; 1452951"

people, because none of us would not allow himself to behave well in the real world - on the street, in the office. Than a forum something worse??

Dear Allena, any driver will confirm - redneck in life, he was on the road-goon! He did not miss perestrotsya, ever leaves on the counter and at the crossroads of all strives to overtake and get pervym.A about to "blink" dimensions in gratitude - do not wait! Redneck, he is in the Sahara desert - redneck!
Mr. Igor Sasha from the city of P. pleasure positiveness in the style of Polygraph Sharikova, shoot the bull on forume.Kazhetsya he said many times here about it, but ..... can the leopard change his spots!
Appeared at the forum jester "Toinen, more commonly known (from a company such as hamovityh" experts ") Forum Collectors UUU. Here it is yet sometimes apologizes for his blunders, but as they say - the berries still vperdi.

[Toinen]

tandem, appeared on the forum is not me but you!
(Note the date of registration).

You would also do well to apologize for blunders, but you in the head and it never comes.
What a pity!

[Vlasta]

Guys, well, no need to quarrel.
Holiday soon, wish each other have only good things, and you go again ...
Right, like kids in kindergarten.
Let everyone take note, and think, I'm sure everything will be fine.
Let's live together!

[Toinen]

Originally Posted by "Vlasta

Guys, well, no need to quarrel

And in his mind was not there!

[Grigory]

Originally Posted by Toinen

tandem, appeared on the forum is not me but you!
(Note the date of registration).

Hey, gentlemen!
Wake up, we're not in the army!
Manifestations of bullying on the forum on the art of ...
achumet, mom Dorokhov ...

[NATA NOVA]

Originally Posted by "Grigory

Manifestations of hazing on the forum

Has always been to (sorry) ..
(For myself remember ....)

And you're the admins, not too struggled with this. (IMHO)

[Moriakoff]

Dear Sirs, I would like to present you a parable ...
       Resentment and touchy.
- Teacher, I am very hard life, because I hurt people. And I long to offend people. What should I do?
The teacher gave the pupil a bag of nails and said: "Every time you will be offended, you have to hammer another nail into the wall."
On the first day the wall was 26 strikes like nails. The boy learned to restrain his anger, and every day the number slaughtered in a wall of nails began to decrease.
The boy realized that you can control your temper.
The day came when the boy never lost his composure.
Then the teacher said:
- Every day when you manage to hold back, you can pull out one nail from the wall.
The day came when the wall there was not a single nail.

Then the teacher led the boy to the wall:
- Are you a good idea right, but how many holes in the wall? It will never be the same as before. When talking about the man something evil, he remains as a scar, as well as those holes. And no matter how many times after that you're sorry - the scar remains.
- And what do I do with the holes in the wall that remained after the nails? - Asks a student.
- But with them you have to live life ...