Reflections

[Yaya]

So hopefully be on their own strength and stiffness to accept the administration.

K-Maler, I'm actually not very fond of psychologists, psychoanalysts, and (especially!) Business consultants. In short, those who have a tendency to poke your nose into other people's affairs, give advice, take money for them and do not bear the responsibility. BUT! Since I have 2 small children, had to get deeper into the psychology of children. And it turned out that there are only 5 reasons for deviant behavior in children! Understand? Only five! For every reason there is a mechanism counter (and very simple). Discover adopted - to apply the measures, and further technical matter. This is the child crazy. As an adult - do not know. Perhaps there can find some similar decisions. They may be simple, but we do not know about them, simply because we are not experts in this field.
I am not suggesting that the psychologist sat round the clock on the forum and edited the message. But he may advise some universal (and glaring) methods of smoothing sharp corners, "a shift" from negative to positive.

Dear Chernomashentsev Vladimir, to speak deployed, does not mean to say convincing. Especially since you are paying for verbosity "in other places."