Quietly, Oleg7, do not worry !
"Let's try another Raziq: click on the white triangle next to the nickname of your destination. Menu opens. And there will be, among others, "Send a private message.
If you do not get - admins will understand, and you try to go to the page that you'd like to send a message, and from there send a message (by clicking on the white triangle under the nick, where "the message).