Three lives of Natalia Goncharova - Pushkina

Natalia Goncharova, in the first marriage of Pushkin, the second — Lanskaya 8 September 1812,Tambov province — 8 Dec 1863 St-Петербург — wife of Alexander Pushkin. Seven years after his death she married General Petr Petrovich Lansky.

In the Goncharov family all were born seven children, Natasha was the fifth child. The family lived in Moscow, but in 1812 during the Patriotic war, Goncharov went to the family estate Zagryazhskaya in the village of Karia, where Natasha was born.
Childhood Natalia Goncharova were held in Moscow. She also often visited a small town cloth Factory, which was located in the Kaluga province, where all was in charge of her grandfather.

the Girl was often sent to the grandparents because the family circumstances were not too favorable. Natasha was only two years since her father was diagnosed with a mental illness. And although all the relatives said it was caused by a head injury after falling from a horse, in fact, the father drank a lot.
After installation of such a diagnosis to the father, she was sent to the grandfather in a Linen Factory where she was raised almost six years. Afanasy Nikolayevich, not chayali soul in his granddaughter, he ordered it from-за border toys and clothes. Grandfather was raised in a small Tasha (as it is affectionately called relatives) incredible fashionista.
When Natasha returned to the parental home in Moscow, one of her dolls, like princesses from fairy tales, mother broke in fury. The girl only tears filled big brown eyes, but cry she did not dare, because then it would be followed by even more severe punishment. Since then, Natasha avoided the mother when she was in a similar mood, the baby was just hiding where-нибудь in a secluded corner and waited out the storm.

mom, bad family life left a definite imprint, she had a difficult character, was a very controlling woman and their children were raised too strictly demanded from them unquestioning obedience. Maybe that is why Natasha Goncharova never liked to remember and tell about your childhood.
Despite the severity of the mother of his children loved and wished them a decent future. Older brothers Natalya was drafted to a military service, Dmitry has successfully graduated from the Moscow University. And the ladies in the family Goncharov received an excellent education at home.
All who were acquainted with Natalia Goncharova and left to posterity about her memories, noted that the girl from an early age demonstrated an unprecedented beauty. In the light it was exported quite early, Natasha was always a crowd of admirers. However, the strict mother and the father"s illness left an imprint on the girl. Natalia was very shy, modest and silent.
Very educated and well-read girl could not only show off their knowledge in conversation, but also to play chess, to dance, to play piano to sit perfectly in the saddle and control the horse. In this case of girls was raised by good mothers and wives, they all knew how to farm, sew, knit and embroider.
But among her sisters she stands out with elegance, ability to keep yourself attractive simplicity in communication, tact, manners, honesty, deep. Many who knew the family Goncharov, thought Natalia is an amazing nugget. It is unclear where she got this? The father is a weak – willed man, at the end of life were not in his mind. Mother many considered unpleasant special, she never had a good tone. And Natasha was without hypocrisy and on top of that extraordinarily beautiful, these qualities and captured the outright greatest poet of Russia Alexander Pushkin.

In December, 1828, in a house on Tverskoy Boulevard passed balls dancing master Jogela. Natasha was barely 16 years old. So young and madly beautiful on one of the balls it was first seen Pushkin. She was wearing a white dress and gold Hoop on his head. She was remarkably composed in proportion to the harmonious, her every movement filled with grace. So Regal she appeared before a great poet, and he for the first time in my life was timid.
And after four months of Pushkin asked for the hand of Natalia Goncharova. However, her mother believed that she was still too young to be married.
Not received a clear answer, the poet went to the Caucasus in the army.
He was older than Natalia for 13 years, is not rich, in a secular society was recognized as a brilliant poet and at the same time, unreliable person. On top of that Pushkin was bad on account of the sovereign. Maybe this influenced the decision of the mother. But Natasha managed to break the resistance of a mother. As said about her mother:" Мне thought that she is passionate about her женихом".
In 1830, Pushkin returned to Moscow on 6 April for the second time asked for the hand of Natalia Goncharova. This time the consent was obtained. A month later, on may 6, 1830, the engagement took place.
But the wedding could not have time to play like that-то constantly pushed away. Even Pushkin himself wrote in a letter to his fiancée:" Наша wedding exactly running away from me". The groom often quarreled with my future in-laws, most often the cause of disputes was the dowry. Mother didn"t want to give Natasha to marry without a dowry and money Goncharov was not. Then the dead uncle of the groom, and Pushkin went to Boldin to get the inheritance. But there he had to stay for three months-за cholera epidemic.
In the end, Pushkin decided to mortgage the estate Kistenevo, and out of the money given to Natalino mother of 11 thousand rubles for the dowry. Never then Alexander is not a single word, no hint is nowhere mentioned that he married the bride.
2 Mar 1831 Alexander Pushkin and Natalia Goncharova were married in Moscow Church" Большое Ascension". During the wedding ceremony Pushkin dropped to the floor engagement ring, and then he damped the candle. The bridegroom turned pale and whispered:" Это bad приметы".
the Couple first settled in a rented apartment in Moscow. But then, not wanting to mother-in-law interfered in their personal life, went to Tsarskoye Selo. Young Natasha became the mistress of a large and bright house where there were often guests. They had to meet, set the table and serve hot tea. And Natalia had the clap in the living room, as the morning Pushkin, locked himself in his office and up to two hours continuously wrote.
19 may 1832 Pushkin and Goncharova was born a girl Maria. In six years of marriage Natalia after Mary bore her husband three more children – two boys Grisha and Sasha, and one of the girls Natasha.
In 1835, Natalia became acquainted with the Imperial guards Dantes, he began courting her. Although nobody could call her a flirt, despite the fact that she was constantly attended balls and social events. She just never gave cause her husband to doubt her love and fidelity. After courtship Dantes rumors that he has an affair with the wife of Pushkin.

Dantes beat these rumors and their courtship that so wanted to get acquainted with Natalia"s sister Catherine, who later married him. But all this has left some-то black mark on the happy family life of Pushkin. In early 1837, during one of the balls Dantes insulted Natalia. The whole world knows how that ended, – Black river, the duel, seriously wounded Pushkin, and two days later the death of the poet. Before his death he told his Natalia"ve always trusted her and she is innocent.
Natalia after all these events seriously ill and left with the children in Polotnyanyy Zavod to rest and heal. Here she remained until 1839.
In 1839, Natalia returned with the children to St. Petersburg. After several years of reclusive life in 1843 she visited the theatre. There was her chance meeting with the Emperor, after which Natasha just had to appear in the society of the sovereign. She again came out and-прежнему was dazzlingly beautiful.
In 1844, Natalia met a friend of her brother – General Lansky Peter Petrovich. He was 45 years old, and the man considered himself a confirmed bachelor. He began to visit each of Natalia Nikolaevna, over time I have become very attached to their cozy and warm house, especially Peter liked to communicate with children.

16 Jul 1844 Natalia and Peter were married. The wedding was modest, it was attended by only the relatives and close friends. In this marriage Natasha gave birth to three daughters – Sophia, Alexandra and Elizabeth.
Death
in the Fall of 1863 Natalia went to Moscow to the christening of his grandson. There she caught a severe cold, and then in the way back, the disease began to worsen. Arriving home in Petersburg, this cold turned into pneumonia. She died in a feverish delirium. It was gloomy morning, was the cold rain, sometimes turning into snow, 8 Dec 1863 in Petersburg departed this life the most beautiful of women Natalia Goncharova.
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