RAISING CHILDREN IN JAPAN

Children are our future. The Japanese understand this as one, and therefore teach children not to be selfish and put his own gain on the second place after the interests of the public.

primarily, this objective is achieved by celebrating the common birthday of all, who was three, five or seven years — in one day – November 15. The tradition has deep roots and is associated with a high mortality of children in the past.

the Japanese were convinced that to seven years the child is in the care of the gods and is not a member of the holiday alive. In addition, these years in a person"s life are considered crucial.

the Day and a little Japanese painted to the minute. The biennial baby learn English, develop their talents, sing or draw. In four years, some play musical instruments, if the kid doesn"t want what-то to do, it will not be forced. Everything that surrounds the little man has it and develop and entertain.

Images-символы

System education in Japan is structured for children to learn vital roles, imitating the behavior of parents. Therefore, in families with children are always treated with love and kindness, never raise their voice. So start to respect others and control@is now over his emotions.

Important – to teach a small person to get along with other people, in the future, he became a full member of society. Also to have from an early age to instill in your kids the necessary traits, the Japanese use образы-символы.

In the case of boys is fish, carp; it is believed that it brings success, but also symbolizes the overcoming of life"s difficulties. Therefore, the fifth of may, the Day Guys, the Japanese decorate their homes in the form of a carp.

And the third of March, the Day Girls are portrayed in country estates is a beautiful doll that is passed from generation to generation. To touch them is forbidden, one can only admire. This tradition teaches girls not to be naughty and fosters restraint, patience and thoughtfulness.

Stages of education

• With the first day of life up to 5 years child think" императором". He did not ban, just warn phrases" это dangerous"," здесь dirty"," горячо".
• 6 up to 6 up to 15 years of" императора" it turns into" раба". In the first place discipline, learning, behavior and appearance.
• 16 years young people are" равными". Consulted parents, they have a responsibility to the family and the state.

in General, the time of indulgence for children ends in the year before school in five years. At this age, young Japanese start to attend preparatory classes before school. Here they do their homework first, learn to carry out all instructions of the teachers.

in addition, the student has a diary, a print which shows that the student is not truant from classes. All children come to school already knowing how to write and to count. Japanese mom watch closely the education of his children. But never praised, either at home or in conversation with others.

the Japanese Officially become adults at age twenty. Coming of Age day is also celebrated together on the second Monday of January. From this day, young people can vote, take out loans, to buy or sell real estate.

the Purpose of collective holidays is not only a sign of social solidarity, but also the formation of aspirations to achieve shared success.

About Japanese moms

Mothers can feed their babies up to seven years. But once the child goes to school, responsibilities, not avoid it. The school marks the moment when the child first feels the full responsibility, and caring mother can"t even take your kid to school.

Child – parent center of the Universe. In Japan it is felt by-особенному. Usually, career women here ends immediately after marriage. She is relieved from work and starts preparing for the role of the future mother, after all, to help grandma or nanny"s hope not.

Father can devote to the children twenty minutes a day, because its main task – to earn money.

Therefore, to combine work and motherhood Japanese women pretty hard. There are, of course, that-то like nurseries or kindergartens for children whose mothers work. But to arrange your baby, you need to collect many documents that would confirm that the woman does not have to look after the baby.

If the baby gets sick, the days when a woman is not going to work, no it"s not.

If child-таки will attach, mom will have a monthly walk and talk with the caregiver about the behavior of your baby. She also will receive daily detailed report of what the kid ate, where you walked, how did, how many times crying.

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